People often describe the place between deciding and divorcing as a tunnel. It can feel like a dark scary place and can become a brooder for a whole bunch of painful emotions like fear, anxiety, paralysis, shame, guilt, anger, and failure.

In this Class One preview, we’ll investigate this dark space where it’s common to lost, stuck, and afraid.

“Stuff” happens, and when it does, we often take it personally and question why it’s “happening to me.” Feeling victimized by what we see as unfair circumstances, brings up a lot of unproductive emotions and behaviors that only enhance this perception of victimhood.

In this Part Two preview, you’ll explore a way to shift your mindset from victim to victor.